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10 Things To Stop Doing in Your Relationships
Jan 11th

Want to build positive relationships? Then make sure not to commit the following 10 things that disrupt relationships:
- Giving hurtful comments. Are you hurting others by your lack of tact? You might think that you’re being helpful, but your intentions might have hurt the other party instead. Put yourself in others’ shoes first. If it’s not a comment you appreciate hearing yourself, then perhaps it’s not something others will appreciate either.
- Giving solutions when the person is really looking for a listening ear. Probably an understatement: A lot of times what people want is a listening ear. Deep down, people have solutions to the problems they are facing – they are just looking for someone to share their frustrations with because they have had a long and hard day. I had a friend who would always butt in with suggestions whenever I shared my frustrations. Our conversations became stifling – in the end I stopped talking about them altogether because I wasn’t getting the refuge I wanted. Be more conscious of what the other party is looking for, and adjust accordingly to fit that.
- Being judgmental; Thinking you are above others. No one likes to be judged or labeled. If you are constantly judging others for what they do/say, it might be good to reflect that upon yourself. Putting someone off doesn’t make someone a better person; it just makes him/her appear insecure. Humility is a timeless virtue that’s appreciated by everyone.
- Being defensive to criticism. How well do you respond to criticism? Do you become defensive and wall yourself up? Or do you graciously take it into stride and use the criticism constructively for growth? Learn to deal with critical people – it might be the most important skill you can ever acquire.
- Telling people what to do. Most of us don’t like it when people try to boss us around. Learning to energize people and get them on board a common vision is more empowering than trying to order people around.
- Being aloof; Not being responsive. I have experienced situations where acquaintances do not respond to correspondences, possibly because they do not see them as important. Subsequently I form a very bad impression of them, and deprioritize their requests when they seek my help later on.
- Thinking you know it all. The more I learn, the more I realize what I don’t know. There is a wealth of knowledge out there for us to learn. Thinking you know everything, rejecting new methods and vehemently insisting on your ways prevents you from connecting with others. Be open to trying new things.
- Being a complainer. It’s okay to complain every once in a while, but doing it all too often puts off people. Complaining too much makes you an energy vortex – it becomes draining to be around you. People like to be around positive people, not energy vampires. If you are one, it’s not too late to change – start by focusing on positive things around you and work from there.
- Not following up on things you agreed on. One of my pet peeves is when people don’t follow up on things they agree on (be it appointments, favors, etc). I think it makes them unreliable and leaves a very bad taste in my mouth. These are the same people that I make a note not to work with in the future.
- Not listening. Are you present in your conversations with others? Or is your mind on something else? When conversing with someone, learn to not only listen, but listen actively. Seek out the underlying message behind what someone is saying.
Here are some classic posts on dealing with people which you should check out:
- 9 Helpful Tips To Deal With Negative People
- 9 Ways To Manage People Who Bother You
- 5 Keys to Building Networks Over Time
- 9 Useful Strategies To Deal With Difficult People At Work
Let’s work hard to build more meaningful relationships in 2011!
I'm Celes and I write at The Personal Excellence Blog on how to achieve our highest potential and live our best life. Get my free ebook 101 Things To Do Before You Die by joining my free newsletter (unsubscribe whenever you want). Get my RSS feed and add me on Twitter @celestinechua.
The 100 Best Lifehacks of 2010: The Year in Review
Jan 2nd

Happy New Year everyone! It’s the first week of 2011 and many of us are getting ready to kick off the brand new year with a big bang. As we start off 2011 with our new resolutions and goals, let us now look back at the best posts at Lifehack in the past year.
In this review post, I have gathered 100 of the best LifeHack articles in 2010. These articles have been selected based on your votes and how much YOU have talked about them in social media (Facebook and Twitter). I have categorized these 100 articles into 11 main categories of Overall Personal Growth, Maximizing Productivity & GTD, Lifestyle & Habits, Inspiration & Motivation, Goal Achievement & Success, Emotional Mastery, People Skills & Relationships, Communications & Writing, Business & Career, Creativity & Inspiration, Family and Miscellaneous.
Do not attempt to read this whole post at once! Instead, bookmark this mega list post and come back time and again to read the articles relevant to you at that point in time. I’ve ranked the posts within each category in order of popularity, with the most popular post being #1. I’ve also included the (1) author name and (2) total number of retweets and Facebook likes/shares beside the article, so you can gauge how well-received the article was among the LifeHack readers.
Let me start off with the top 10 most popular life hack posts out of the 100s of posts published in 2010. Each of them is a gem in itself. Be sure to check each of them out!
Following which, I’ll present the 100 top articles presented in the 11 catetgories. Enjoy! And remember to share this to others via the retweet and Facebook buttons above! :)
Top 10 Most Popular Posts in 2010:
Overall Personal Growth
- 42 Practical Ways To Improve Yourself (by Celestine Chua, 2176)
- Why Being A Perfectionist May Not Be So Perfect (by Celestine Chua, 367)
- The Quickest Way to Create a New Mindset (by Craig Harper, 263)
- The Law of Attraction is a Dangerous Delusion (by Paul Sloane, 249)
- 7 Ways to Make Life Changing Decisions (by Hulbert Lee, 236)
- 5 Steps To Move Out Of Stagnancy In Life (by Celestine Chua, 150)
- What Do You Need To Let Go Of? (by Craig Harper, 132)
- How To Save Thousands on Personal Development (by Craig Harper, 114)
- Can You Transform Without Getting Uncomfortable? (by Craig Harper, 99)
- Do Your Beliefs Empower You or Limit You? (by Craig Harper, 97)
- 9 Ways To Tell If You Are A Self-Help Junkie (And What To Do About It) (by Celestine Chua, 90)
Maximizing Productivity and GTD
- The Not-Do List: 9 Things You Need To Stop Doing (by Celestine Chua, 940)
- 11 Practical Ways To Stop Procrastination (by Celestine Chua, 823)
- 13 Strategies To Jumpstart Your Productivity (by Celestine Chua, 700)
- Twitter Hack: 5 Ways To Up Your Visible IQ (by Seth Simonds, 505)
- 20 Quick Tips For Better Time Management (by Celestine Chua, 497)
- How To Tweet in Just 5 Minutes a Week (by Seth Simonds, 229)
- A New Productivity for the Smartphone Era (by Francis Wade, 222)
- 5 Types of Emails You Should be Automatically Filtering (by Sid Sivara, 170)
- 12 Useful Ways To Get Out Of Ruts (by Celestine Chua, 164)
- Are You Becoming a “Productive” Moron? (by Francis Wade, 163)
- Staying Organized: 8 Tips for Daily Sanity (by Debbie Bowie, 160)
- Productivity Pr0n: 5 Unusually Useful Notepads (by Dustin Wax, 151)
- How I’m Getting a Smartphone, While Avoiding Crazy Habits (by Francis Wade, 144)
- 7 Ways To Stay Grounded by Staying Organized (by Debbie Bowie, 127)
- Fight Bad Cellphone Habits For Better Time Management (by Francis Wade, 124)
- Are You a Productive Person? Look at the Number of People Waiting (by Francis Wade, 121)
Lifestyle and Habits
- 7 Caffeine-Free Ways to Increase Alertness (by Seth Simonds, 369)
- 6 Steps To Remove TV From Your Life (by Celestine Chua, 357)
- 5 Tips For Becoming An Early Riser (by Seth Simonds, 290)
- Do You Have A Morning Ritual? (by Seth Simonds, 279)
- 7 Effective Ways To De-Junk Your Life (by Seth Simonds, 254)
- 6 Proven Ways To Make New Habits Stick(by Celestine Chua, 242)
- 9 Tips For Better Sleep (by Seth Simonds, 213)
- Sleep Hack: A Simple Strategy For Better Rest In Less Time (by Seth Simonds, 187)
Inspiration & Motivation
- 5 Simple ways to live a life you love (by Seth Simonds, 692)
- 20 Inspirational Quotes To Brighten Your Day (by Celestine Chua, 573)
- 7 Ways To Demonstrate True Strength (by Seth Simonds, 407)
- 8 Life Lessons You Should Learn Today (by Mike Brown, 275)
- What Advice Would You Give To Your 18 Year Old Self? (by Seth Simonds, 157)
Goal Achievement & Success
- 11 Reasons Why You Aren’t Getting Results (by Celestine Chua, 368)
- 11 Simple Ways To Avoid Burnout (by Seth Simonds, 348)
- Brilliant Thinkers Relish Ambiguity (by Paul Sloane, 340)
- Top 10 Resolutions To Set For The New Year (by Celestine Chua, 304)
- How To Be In The Right Place At The Right Time More Often (by Seth Simonds, 239)
- How To Start and Run a Mastermind Group (by Sid Sivara, 208)
- 10 Tips to Create a High Performance Environment (by Debbie Bowie, 161)
- Change Your Focus For Better Results (by Craig Harper, 155)
- How To Walk On Water (by Seth Simonds, 130)
- How to Do What You’ve Always Wanted (by Steve Errey, 130)
- Education Should be More than Academic Basics (by Craig Harper, 115)
Emotional Mastery
- 63 Ways to Build Self-Confidence (by Steve Errey, 754)
- 7 Simple Ways To Be Happier (by Seth Simonds, 509)
- 7 Quick ways to turn a bad day around (by Seth Simonds, 449)
- 11 Reasons to be Cheerful (by Paul Sloane, 430)
- 5 Simple Ways To Spread Positivity (by Seth Simonds, 272)
- How Much Stuff Do You Need To Feel Happy? (by Seth Simonds, 254)
- 5 Ways to Stop Second Guessing Yourself (by Steve Errey, 169)
- 5 Ways to Brighten A Cloudy Day (by Seth Simonds, 110)
People Skills & Relationships
- 9 Helpful Tips To Deal With Negative People (by Celestine, 760)
- 9 Ways To Manage People Who Bother You (by Celestine Chua, 554)
- 5 Simple Ways To Be A Better Listener (by Seth Simonds, 357)
- Top 10 Ways to Lead More Effectively with Humor (by Mike Brown, 236)
- 5 Steps To Conquer Any Networking Event (by Seth Simonds, 183)
- 5 Keys To A Better Love Life (by Seth Simonds, 178)
- 5 Keys to Building Networks Over Time (by Alexandra Levit, 122)
Communications & Writing
- 11 Paradoxes of Being a Better Public Speaker (by Mike Brown, 326)
- 9 Expert Tips For Better Writing (by Seth Simonds, 240)
- 10 Ways Blogging Can Improve Your Life (by Annabel Candy, 232)
- 9 Ways To Handle Interruptions Like A Pro (by Seth Simonds, 211)
- 8 Qualities of Powerful Writing (by Dustin Wax, 182)
- 31 Proven Ways To Get More Comments On Your Blog (by Seth Simonds, 167)
- Develop Your Greatest Skill – Language (by Paul Sloane, 106)
- How to Tell a Funny Joke (by Hulbert Lee, 96)
Business & Career
- 7 Things you should stop doing at work (by Seth Simonds, 845)
- 8 Ways To Bring Your Creative Passions to Work (by Mike Brown, 238)
- 9 Strategies to Make Selling Your Ideas More Successful (by Mike Brown, 192)
- How to Be Successful When You Can’t Plan Ahead (by Mike Brown, 190)
- Wise Money – 5 Tips From Billionaire Investor Warren Buffett (by Seth Simonds, 171)
- 5 Things You Should Know About Personal Finance (by Ibrahim Husain, 137)
- 8 Ways to Recharge a Tired Old Job (by Mike Brown, 121)
- How to Shine in a Job Interview (by Steve Errey, 110)
- It’s Time to Manage Your Online Personal Brand (by Dan Schawbel, 107)
Creativity & Inspiration
- 9 Great Ways to Be Exceptionally Boring (by Paul Sloane, 387)
- How to Feel Inspired When You’ve Lost Motivation (by Hulbert Lee, 308)
- 12 Tips for Being Good Feng Shui (by Debbie Bowie, 256)
- Stop Trying To Be Creative (by Seth Simonds, 182)
- How to Kill a Radical Idea (by Paul Sloane, 132)
Family
- The Secret to Helping Your Child Excel in School and in Life (by Erin Kurt, 183)
- 11 Way to Instill a Love of Reading in Your Child (by Erin Kurt, 182)
- Parenting: 6 Myths You Should Know About (by Erin Kurt, 165)
- 8 Reasons Why Children Misbehave (With Solutions!) (by Erin Kurt, 158)
- How “Fun” Can Be Your Best Discipline Technique(by Erin Kurt, 119)
- 4 Ways to Spend Time with Your Kids When You Have No Time (by Erin Kurt, 115)
Miscellaneous
- Kitchen Hack: One-Minute Bread (by Seth Simonds, 2126)
- Newbie Fashion Tips for Grown-Up Men (by Dustin Wax, 924)
- 11 Sinfully Easy Sangria Recipes (by Seth Simonds, 257)
- Kitchen Hack: 7-Minute Chocolate Covered Strawberries (by Sarah Joy Albrecht, 112)
- 4 Tips for Getting Started and Self-Publishing a Book (by Debbie Bowie, 100)
Last but not least, here’s a special thank you to Leon Ho (founder of Lifehack.org) and all the writers at Lifehack who have contributed the articles above and more. LifeHack would not be where it is today without all of you. Thank you so much everyone! :)
I'm Celes and I write at The Personal Excellence Blog on how to achieve our highest potential and live our best life. Get my free ebook 101 Things To Do Before You Die by joining my free newsletter (unsubscribe whenever you want). Get my RSS feed and add me on Twitter @celestinechua.
Top 10 Resolutions To Set For The New Year
Dec 22nd

Resolution, n – A commitment that an individual makes that brings positive benefits to his/her life
In just a week’s time, we’ll be stepping into 2011. Are you ready to rock 2011 ahead?
I love the new year, because it’s the time when we start everything on a fresh note. It’s when we set new resolutions, positive intentions of what we want to accomplish for the year. In today’s post, I’m going to share top 10 resolutions to set for the new year. These 10 resolutions cover important areas, and when accomplished, will bring about great benefits to your life.
- Spend more time with family. How many of us often prioritize work over family? Our family is the closest kin we have in the world, so spend more time with them. Let go of work for just an hour a day, and swap that with some quality family time instead. Check with your family members how they are doing at work, in school, and in their relationships.
- Get Fit / Exercise more. Do you know that over 60% of Americans are overweight or obese? A healthy body is the key to a healthy life. Very few of us exercise as frequently as we would like. When things get busy at work, our gym sessions are usually the first to go. Unfortunately, that also means an increasing waistline and wider hips as the years go by. I’m planning a 21-day healthy living challenge on my blog with the start of 2011, where I’ll be exercising regularly and eating healthily (resolution #3) for 21 days straight. Since it takes 21 days to make or break a habit, these 21 days will help to set the positive habits in place for the year and beyond.
- Eat healthily. The modern lifestyle has become one that’s filled with fast food and junk food. Time to take these out and eat some healthy food. Recently I’ve taken a huge liking for salad bars. They’re amazingly filling, and extremely refreshing change.
- Connect with friends. Make it a point to meet up with friends regularly. Remember at the end of the day, our relationships are what give us the biggest fulfillment in life. Go take your phone book and call up your good friends from the past. Or simply use Facebook and search for them. Arrange to meet-up and catch up over a cup of coffee. I recently met my good friend over dinner and it was great meeting her after a long time. We made the commitment to meet up at least once every month so we wouldn’t lose touch.
- Learn something new. Learning never stops. Life is our school, and there are things to learn everywhere we go. Go learn a new language, take a new course, read new books, learn a sport, and more. Check out these 42 helpful tips on how to improve yourself.
- Meet new people. A new year is a great time to forge new friendships, while maintaining old ones of course. We can never have too many friends. Get out there and meet new people! Venture out of your social groups. Meet people whose work inspire you. Network with the top people in your field. Get to know your friends’ friends.
- Meditate. If there’s only one habit you’re going to pick to cultivate, I’ll recommend you pick meditation. Meditation calms your mind and quietens your soul. It’s where you connect with your subconsciousness and unleash that idea genius in you. I’ve gotten some very interesting ideas from my meditations. If you’re new to meditation, it’s very easy to get started. Read: How To Meditate in 5 Simple Steps.
- Do more kind deeds. I think there’s never an end to how much we can help others. The more we give, the happier we’ll be. I’ve dedicated my life to helping others grow, and every day I get more satisfaction from my work than the day before.
- Get rid of clutter. New year is the perfect time to declutter your environment. Do a spring cleaning of your home, your wardrobe, your bedroom, your storeroom and your work desk. You’ll find that removing clutter has a therapeutic effect: As you clear the clutter, you’re inviting new things to enter your life.
- Stop procrastinating. How much time have you wasted in your life procrastinating? Honestly, life’s too short to be procrastinating it away. Start 2011 on a high note – it’s time to cut off all the bad procrastination habits and do everything you’ve been putting off. If you need some help, check out: 11 Practical Ways To Stop Procrastination
Which of the resolutions above are you going to set for 2011? Share with everyone in the comments below!
I'm Celes and I write at The Personal Excellence Blog on how to achieve our highest potential and live our best life. Get my free ebook 101 Things To Do Before You Die by joining my free newsletter (unsubscribe whenever you want). Get my RSS feed and add me on Twitter @celestinechua.
The Not-Do List: 9 Things You Need To Stop Doing
Oct 14th

We’ve all familiar with creating a to-do list to increase our productivity. Another list which can jumpstart our productivity is the not-do list – things we shouldn’t do. By being conscious of what to avoid, it’ll automatically channel our energy into things that we want to do. Doing both hand in hand will maximize our performance.
If you want to take your productivity to the next level, here are 9 habits avoid:
1. Trying to do everything
I mention 80/20 rule a lot in my articles because it’s true. And I’ll repeat again. Not all tasks are equal. Each task has its own importance. In fact by the 80/20 rule, 20% of the tasks on our to-do list account for 80% of the value. So cut ferociously at your to-do list and slice away the 80% low-value tasks. When you’ve streamlined it to the minimum essential, laser focus all your energy on those 20% high value ones. Do the same thing the next day. Rinse and repeat. Keep only the absolute important things and let go of the rest.
Read Strategy #6 on 13 Strategies To Jumpstart Your Productivity for more on the 80/20 rule.
2. Answering all emails (or calls and messages for that matter)
I used to think I have to reply to all emails until I noticed that not all my emails were replied to. In fact, many weren’t, even when they were follow-up replies to reader mails asking for help. Seemingly, all the effort that go into meticulously typing, wording and formatting my mails wasn’t really getting me anywhere. I would be stuck in email land the whole day long with no output to claim of my own except for an increase in mails in my sent box. So I began to selectively reply to higher priority emails , and the world didn’t stop. In fact, I now have more time to create more high value content and articles for readers, which is a big win for everyone.
3. Thinking you have to do everything immediately
Apart from my to-do list and not-do list, I also have a do-later list. This is to collect the items that drop in mid-way through the day, usually administrative, nitty gritty tasks that don’t take much time but aren’t majorly important too. If I drop what I’m doing at the moment to work on them it can be disruptive, so instead I put them in my do-later list. Then at the end of the day, I batch and process everything at one go. It’s a lot more effective.
Likewise for my emails, I have a “Reply by Tue/Thu/Sat” folder where I archived mails to deal with on the respective days.
4. Putting important tasks off
Procrastination is the mind killer. It may seem like a good idea to put off that task now, but that’s just setting yourself for a jam later on, and it’s not worth it. Get started on your most important projects now and stop putting them off. Out of all the people I’ve met in all my life, I’ve never come across anyone who gets authentic joy and happiness from procrastination. The ones who claim to be happy procrastinating are usually living in an illusion, alternating from “Oh I’m happy the way I am” to “I wish I don’t have to do this” to “Sigh I wish I started earlier” in a matter of seconds.
Don’t subject yourself to such a situation. It’s all about a matter of getting started. Once you start, it gets easier. I’ve written 11 simple, yet practical steps which can help you move out of the procrastination cycle.
5. Trying to get things perfect the first time round
Interesting, it’s the perfectionist in us that causes many of us to procrastinate (see #4). If the perfectionist side of you is hindering you from getting things done in the first place, that’s something you should look into. Get into the notion of ‘drafts’ – let yourself work on a 1st draft, where you work on the core content, then return for a 2nd or 3rd draft where you iron out the little details. Give yourself the permission to make mistakes which you can correct later on. It’s much easier this way than trying to get everything right in the 1st version. I do this when writing my articles and my books and my productivity is higher.
6. Being hung up over details
Being detail oriented is good. I’m a very detail oriented person myself. However, don’t be so obsessed with details that it holds you back. Does this matter a year from now? 3 years from now? 5 years? If not, then maybe it’s not worth worrying so much about it now. Go for the bigger picture; that’s more important to you.
7. Not having clear goals
Do you know your goals for this month? How about your goals for this year? And the next year? If you can answer these 3 questions with absolute certainty and conciseness, then you’re good to go. Otherwise, perhaps it’s good to spend some time to think over them. While it may take a bit of time in the beginning, after you work out your priorities, your days become very sharp and focused. I have clear monthly goals and targets which I work toward and review every week, and these help me to stay on track towards my long-term goals. This month, my biggest goal is to finish and release my 2nd book. Being conscious of this goal has helped me to push away the unimportant tasks and prioritize the ones essential for the launch, so I can meet the launch timing. Right now everything is going on track and I’m excited to see the final outcome. Read Strategy #1 of 13 Strategies To Jumpstart Your Productivity for more about setting your targets.
8. Not taking breaks
Humans are not robots. While robots can sustain constant output over a long period of time, we need to rest and recharge. So schedule a short break in between your work hours, say for 5 or 10 minutes, and take a breather. You’ll find your focus markedly higher when you return.
9. Trying to please everyone
I like this quote by Colin Powell, which says “Trying to get everyone to like you is a sign of mediocrity”. You’re never going to be able to control what others think, so don’t spend too much time sweating over it. Instead, work on the things you have control over – yourself, your emotions, your thoughts and your actions. Spend your energy in the creation process, and on people who do deserve your attention and love. Try it for a week – You’ll find it’s a lot more rewarding this way.
How about you?
Which of the 9 items in the not-do list above apply to you? Do you have anything that will increase your productivity markedly once you stop doing them? Share in the comments area.
I'm Celes and I write at The Personal Excellence Blog on how to achieve our highest potential and live our best life. Get my free ebook 101 Things To Do Before You Die by joining my free newsletter (unsubscribe whenever you want). Get my RSS feed and add me on Twitter @celestinechua.
20 Inspirational Quotes To Brighten Your Day
Oct 11th

I love inspirational quotes. They are powerful nuggets of wisdom condensed into 1-2 lines. Whenever I read them, I get so inspired to take action. I remember when I was a high school student, I would decorate the cover of my foolscap pads with quotes because they were so meaningful. Today, I have quotes plastered on the noticeboard in front of my work desk, which I change regularly to whichever quote resonates most with me at the point in time. Whenever I raise my head, I’ll see them in front of me, sort of like a little nod of affirmation. :)
Here, I’ll share 20 of my favorite inspirational quotes. I won’t include any commentary because the quotes speak for themselves. I hope they resonate with you as much as they have with me :)
“There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.” – Albert Einstein
“The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.” – Albert Ellis
“The trouble with not having a goal is that you can spend your life running up and down the field and never score.” – Bill Copeland
“If what you’re doing is not your passion, you have nothing to lose.”
“The person who says something is impossible should not interrupt the person who is doing it.”
“It is never too late to be what you might have been.” – George Eliot
“All our dreams can come true – if we have the courage to pursue them.” – Walt Disney
“What the mind can conceive, it can achieve.” – Napoleon Hill
“It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that things are difficult.” – Seneca
“Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.” ~ Eleanor Roosevelt
“Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.” -Albert Einstein.
“If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door.” -Milton Berle
“The sky has never been the limit. We are our own limits. It’s then about breaking our personal limits and outgrowing ourselves to live our best lives.”
“Don’t say you don’t have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein.” – Life’s Little Instruction Book, compiled by H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
“First they ignore you. Then they laugh at you. Then they fight you. Then you win.” – Mahatma Gandhi
“When you can’t change the direction of the wind — adjust your sails.” ~ H. Jackson Brown
“Everything you want should be yours: the type of work you want; the relationships you need; the social, mental, and aesthetic stimulation that will make you happy and fulfilled; the money you require for the lifestyle that is appropriate to you; and any requirement that you may (or may not) have for achievement or service to others. If you don’t aim for it all, you’ll never get it all. To aim for it requires that you know what you want” ~ Richard Koch
“”To wish you were someone else is to waste the person you are.”
“Confidence comes not from always being right but not fearing to be wrong”
“Your time is limited, don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living the result of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinion drowned your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition, they somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” – Steve Jobs
Photo: MarcoMagrini
I'm Celes and I write at The Personal Excellence Blog on how to achieve our highest potential and live our best life. Get my free ebook 101 Things To Do Before You Die by joining my free newsletter (unsubscribe whenever you want). Get my RSS feed and add me on Twitter @celestinechua.